Improving the self is a basic element of self-esteem. If Harold
Maslow is to be believed, actualization, the realization of a person’s full
potential, is the aim of all human existences and endeavour, the highest form
of personal fulfilment. Unfortunately though, achieving such state is a matter
of factors both internal and external to a person. Of course, opportunities
matter. Without the proper environment and chances to excel, a person cannot
achieve self-fulfilment let alone the highest form of self-gratification.
But a significant factor has to do with internal elements such as
personality and motivation. In fact according to many motivational guru,
personality and motivation are powerful enough to create opportunities and can
allow a person to excel even in very difficult environments. This is a critical
belief in emerging practice of personal life coaching.
Personal Life Coaching as Principle and Practice
Personal life coaching is a very recent development in the education
and training industry particularly in Singapore. Although many of the tenets of personal life
coaching can be found in standard leadership training that has been in use in
many industry and sectoral development institutions since the 80’s modern
personal coaching has evolved further and farther into other dimensions of
human development.
For one, life coaching is now largely considered to be a movement.
Its application in business and professional growth has made it a post-modern
management transformation. While in non-professional applications, it is widely
embraced as spiritual movement due to its focus on harnessing energies and
purifying thought processes and focus.
Practically though, it is a combination of both. Today in Singapore, personal life coaching courses are
packaged as a management-leadership training guide designed around the belief
that leadership and other potentials can be synergized through awakening of
energies and levels of charisma and abilities.
Basic Teachings
In terms of principles and teachings, the main focus of personal
life coaching courses in Singapore is the mindset. It promotes the idea
that the mind is the central key to unlocking the nature of any person and
therefore unleashing his or her potentials. AS such, a basic adage of personal life
coaching is “think big to do big”. This requires expanding
a person’s worldview and seeing the bigger picture, becoming more ambitious or
elevating aspirations and visions. Such a mindset will push people into discovering
not just their limits but their full capacities. Apparently, this success
mindset is a combination of being confident that what you have to offer
will seriously impact other people and that what your dreams no matter how
fleeting can actually come true.
But personal life
coaching also acknowledges that success cannot be achieved by individual alone
and he or she will require assistance of others. As such, it also teaches
client the need to establish a strong reputation in order to create and nurture
a strong network of support. Accordingly, this will help boost confidence since
a person will have a strong support system in a vast network.
In terms of network, personal life coaching in Singapore also
trains students to be thought leaders. This means enabling them to be personal
life coaches in Singapore themselves. Personal life coaching emphasizes to the
need build knowledge base and this can be achieved through a network of
similarly thinking individuals.